subjective criteria vs objective criteria.

People  cannot be expected to be mind readers. They cannot be expected to be held accountable  for someone else's subjective reactions based on that person's views, emotions and judgements.
Feeling offended is subjective and a personal reaction stemming from inside the psyche of the person who feels offended.
People cannot be assumed to be responsible for the subjective criteria of how someone else feels.
People can be held accountable on objective criteria that is observable by anyone.
 Laws and rules that are fair must be  based on objective criteria.

Subjective information or writing is based on personal opinions, interpretations, points of view, emotions and judgment. It is often considered ill-suited for scenarios like news reporting or decision making in business or politics. Objective information or analysis is fact-based, measurable and observable.